
Originally Posted by
Cannibalized
I'm always being asked to take photos of live band shows. I'm terrible at it. I don't want to use the on camera flash because it makes the photos look terrible. And handheld in lowlight is just impossible, because of all of the movement of both myself and my shakey hands as well as the band members.
Would a speedlight solve all of my problems? I've never even used one but I will eventually invest in one, but does it even make the lighting look subtle enough so that you can see stage lights and such as well? Rather than blown out white faces? I know I can change the exposure on the flash, but even so, I've never had success!
(I decline paying jobs all the time because I have no clue how to do this!)
Basically I'd recommend a speedlight and a flash bracket. Flash bracket is not necessary but it would help eliminate shadows caused by flash, and when you use telephoto it really helps eliminate redeye! In all honesty any speedlight would work fine, but if it were me and if you could afford it I'd go with either the 550ex or 580ex. 580ex is my flash of choice but not everyone can afford this unit so the 550ex still does a dam good job and if you learn to love using flash you can start using multiple flashes wirelessly if you get either the 550 or 580. I have no experience with other speedlights but I'm sure they would do the job just as good as long as it is a canon.
You can make the light subtle depending on what settings you are using, there are alot of variables and settings to play around with and learn. It could take you a while to learn everything but once you do you will be more valuable as a photographer. If you just snap the flash unit on the camera without learning anything and without changing any settings and expect to take awesome shots you have another thing coming. And you can always cheat and get a gary fong light sphere but there's only so much you can do with that pos. If you take the time to learn your equipment you will get great results, like I always say, you can't get a flash today and expect to be a pro by tomorrow... It takes time.
But to answer your question yes a speedlight would help a great deal. Just to give you an idea, I've had my 580's for a while now and I still havn't mastered them!!! But the journey on the path to knowledge has been fun and it feels very rewarding when I learn something new!! 
good luck with your decision! 
Maybe drop some hints to your parents... "yea if I had a flash I could take some great xmas pictures..."
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